10 Lessons to Transform Your Marriage
by John M. Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman and Joan DeClaire
Ten couples from the Gottman lab, their actual conversations annotated with what went wrong and how they repaired. The most concrete Gottman book because you see the dialogue.
Read it if…
you want to see Gottman's principles in real conversations.
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Skip it if…
you want the framework; read Seven Principles.
Try instead: The Attachment Theory Workbook →
Three things you will actually use
- Repair attempts save marriages.
- Soft start-ups change outcomes.
- Turn toward bids.
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Read one couple's chapter and find your own pattern.
Our verdict
Gottman, in dialogue.
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