Co-parenting with a Toxic Ex
by Amy J. L. Baker and Paul R. Fine
Seventeen alienation strategies a toxic ex may use and specific responses for each, focused on protecting the child's relationship with you without badmouthing. Tactical and calm.
Read it if…
you need scripts for specific alienating behaviours.
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Skip it if…
your ex is difficult but not alienating.
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Three things you will actually use
- Respond to the child, not to the ex.
- Never badmouth; it backfires.
- Consistency is your argument.
Do this first
Find the strategy your ex uses and read its response.
Our verdict
Scripts for alienation.
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