
Give and Take
by Adam Grant
Grant sorts people into givers, takers and matchers and shows, with data, that givers end up both at the bottom and the top; the difference is whether they protect their time and give strategically. It is a hopeful book about generosity in work that does not require you to be a doormat.
Read it if…
you are generous and feel used, or you suspect generosity is a career liability.
Skip it if…
you want personal productivity; this is about networks and reputation.
Three things you will actually use
- Give in ways that scale: introductions, feedback, knowledge.
- Chunk your giving so it does not fragment your work.
- Spot takers early and match them instead.
Do this first
Do one five-minute favor for someone who cannot repay you, and track what happens over a month.
Our verdict
Well-researched and encouraging; makes a strong case that kindness compounds.
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