Married Sex
by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta
A Christian guide to sex in marriage that is actually frank: anatomy, desire differences, frequency, pornography, trauma, and the theology of pleasure, co-written with a licensed counsellor. Fills a gap in the genre.
Read it if…
you are a Christian couple who wants a frank, informed sex book.
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Skip it if…
you want a secular guide; see Nagoski or Kerner.
Try instead: The Sacred Search →
Three things you will actually use
- Pleasure is designed, not tolerated.
- Desire differences are normal and workable.
- Talk about it outside the bedroom.
Do this first
Read the chapter on desire differences together.
Our verdict
Frank, Christian, informed.
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