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Not Just Friends by Shirley P. Glass — WisdomDeck honest review
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Not Just Friends

by Shirley P. Glass

The researcher who defined emotional infidelity on how affairs begin with friendship, the 'walls and windows' model, and recovery. The standard clinical book on infidelity; direct, thorough and useful for prevention as well as repair.

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you are recovering from or worried about an emotional affair.

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Three things you will actually use

  1. Affairs start as friendships with secrecy.
  2. Windows to your spouse, walls to others.
  3. Recovery requires full honesty.

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The standard book on infidelity.

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