Not Just Friends
by Shirley P. Glass
The researcher who defined emotional infidelity on how affairs begin with friendship, the 'walls and windows' model, and recovery. The standard clinical book on infidelity; direct, thorough and useful for prevention as well as repair.
Read it if…
you are recovering from or worried about an emotional affair.
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Skip it if…
you want a lighter read.
Try instead: After the Affair →
Three things you will actually use
- Affairs start as friendships with secrecy.
- Windows to your spouse, walls to others.
- Recovery requires full honesty.
Do this first
Read the walls-and-windows chapter and check where yours are.
Our verdict
The standard book on infidelity.
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