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Odd Girl Out by Rachel Simmons — WisdomDeck honest review
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Odd Girl Out

by Rachel Simmons

Relational aggression among girls: exclusion, rumour, silent treatment, the alliance-building that adults miss because it is not physical. Simmons interviewed hundreds of girls and the book made 'relational aggression' a household term.

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Read it if…

your daughter is being frozen out and the school says nothing is happening.

Skip it if…

you want a parenting manual; it is reportage with advice at the end.

Three things you will actually use

  1. Girls' aggression is relational and invisible to adults.
  2. Exclusion is bullying.
  3. Name it to your daughter; she already knows.

Do this first

Read the chapter on how adults miss it and talk to one teacher.

Our verdict

The hidden aggression of girls.

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