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Self-Therapy by Jay Earley — WisdomDeck honest review
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Self-Therapy

by Jay Earley

A step-by-step guide to doing Internal Family Systems work on your own: accessing parts, unblending, getting to know protectors, working with exiles, and unburdening, with transcripts and exercises. It is more procedural than Schwartz's book and is the practical manual for self-guided IFS.

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Read it if…

you understand IFS and want to practice it yourself between or without sessions.

Skip it if…

you are new to IFS; read No Bad Parts first.

Three things you will actually use

  1. Unblend before you work; the Self must lead.
  2. Protectors need appreciation before they step aside.
  3. Go slowly with exiles; permission first.

Do this first

Do the first exercise: identify a protector part and ask what it is protecting.

Our verdict

Procedural and practical.

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