She Comes First
by Ian Kerner
A sex therapist's guide to female pleasure for male partners, with anatomy, technique and the argument that most sex education got the order wrong. Explicit, well-informed and more useful than its cheeky title suggests.
Read it if…
you are a man who wants to be a better partner and will read frankly.
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Skip it if…
you are uncomfortable with explicit content.
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Three things you will actually use
- Anatomy first; technique second.
- Order matters.
- Communication is the technique.
Do this first
Read the anatomy chapters before the technique chapters.
Our verdict
Frank and useful.
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