
The Anxious Generation
by Jonathan Haidt
Haidt argues that the shift from play-based to phone-based childhood, around 2010, drove a sharp rise in anxiety and depression among adolescents, and proposes four norms: no smartphones before high school, no social media before sixteen, phone-free schools, more independence. The evidence is contested by some researchers; the proposals are concrete.
Read it if…
you are a parent, teacher or policymaker trying to decide about phones and childhood.
Skip it if…
you want a book about your own habits; this is about children and society.
Three things you will actually use
- Delay smartphones and social media.
- Protect unstructured, unsupervised play.
- Act collectively with other parents; it is easier together.
Do this first
If you have children, write the family's phone rules in one sentence each and post them.
Our verdict
Urgent and debated; whatever the final science, the norms are reasonable.
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