The Assertiveness Workbook
by Randy J. Paterson
A CBT-based workbook: the four styles, barriers to assertiveness, and skills for requests, refusals, feedback, criticism and conflict, with exercises. Thorough and clinical in the best sense.
Read it if…
you want to practise assertiveness with worksheets.
See the book →
Skip it if…
you want to read, not do.
Try instead: Assertiveness: How to Stand Up for Yourself and Still Win the Respect of Others →
Three things you will actually use
- Assertiveness is a skill set, not a personality.
- Refusals need no excuse.
- Receive criticism without collapse or counterattack.
Do this first
Complete the style assessment and the first skills chapter.
Our verdict
Assertiveness, with worksheets.
See the book →
Compare with other Confidence books

Assertiveness: How to Stand Up for Yourself and Still Win the Respect of Others
Judy Murphy · Confidence
Basics in an afternoon.
CLICK TO SEEBrowse all Confidence book reviews or get the free Reality Code Cheat Sheet.
As an Amazon Associate, WisdomDeck earns from qualifying purchases. Links marked “Click to see” go to Amazon. We are not paid for opinions, prices and availability are not shown here and change on Amazon, and we never see your purchase details. Nothing here is medical, legal or financial advice.


