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The Long Goodbye by Meghan O'Rourke — WisdomDeck honest review
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The Long Goodbye

by Meghan O'Rourke

A poet's memoir of her mother's death from cancer and the year after, with research on how cultures mourn. Literary and clear-eyed.

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Three things you will actually use

  1. Grief is not linear.
  2. Rituals matter.
  3. Write it down.

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O'Rourke's goodbye.

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