The Marshmallow Test
by Walter Mischel
Mischel, who ran the original marshmallow experiments, explains what they actually found and the strategies children used to wait: distraction, reframing, cooling the hot stimulus. He addresses later critiques and the role of trust and environment. It is more nuanced than the pop version and more useful.
Read it if…
you want the real story behind a famous study and practical self-control strategies from it.
Skip it if…
you want a quick read; it is thorough and academic in places.
Three things you will actually use
- Cool the hot; heat the cool.
- Use if-then plans for known temptations.
- Build trust in your own future rewards by keeping promises to yourself.
Do this first
For one temptation, practice 'cooling' it: describe it abstractly, as if it were a picture.
Our verdict
Thoughtful and corrective; the study, explained by its author.
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