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We: Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love by Robert A. Johnson — WisdomDeck honest review
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We: Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love

by Robert A. Johnson

Tristan and Iseult read as the Western cult of romantic love and its confusion of human love with the divine. Illuminating about why relationships disappoint.

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Three things you will actually use

  1. Romance projects the divine onto a person.
  2. Human love is ordinary and durable.
  3. Stir the oatmeal.

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Romance versus love.

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