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What Do You Say? by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson — WisdomDeck honest review
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What Do You Say?

by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson

The Self-Driven Child authors on how to talk to kids about motivation, screens, stress and failure. Script-level practical.

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you know what you want to say but not how.

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you have not read The Self-Driven Child.

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Three things you will actually use

  1. Be a consultant, not a boss.
  2. Validate before advising.
  3. Ask, do not tell.

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Read the chapter on the consultant stance.

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How to talk to your kids.

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