You and Me Forever
by Francis Chan and Lisa Chan
The Chans argue that marriage is not the point; eternity is, and couples who focus on God's mission together have better marriages than those who focus on each other. Counterintuitive and challenging; profits go to charity.
Read it if…
you are a Christian couple whose marriage has become self-focused.
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Skip it if…
you want relationship skills; this is about purpose.
Try instead: 8 Rules of Love →
Three things you will actually use
- Marriage serves a mission beyond itself.
- Eternity reframes conflict.
- Serve together.
Do this first
Discuss with your spouse what mission you could pursue together.
Our verdict
Marriage with a mission.
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