I Hate You—Don't Leave Me
by Jerold J. Kreisman and Hal Straus
The first popular book on borderline personality disorder, updated: what it is, how it feels inside, treatment, communication for families. Informative; not a diagnostic tool.
Read it if…
you want to understand BPD from both sides.
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Skip it if…
you want a memoir.
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Three things you will actually use
- Support, empathy, truth.
- Consistency helps.
- Treatment works.
Do this first
Read the chapter on the SET communication method.
Our verdict
Understanding BPD.
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