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Winning with People by John C. Maxwell — WisdomDeck honest review
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Winning with People

by John C. Maxwell

Twenty-five 'people principles' grouped by readiness, connection, trust, investment and synergy: the lens principle, the mirror principle, the pain principle, the elevator principle. It is Maxwell's relationships book, aphoristic and story-driven, and more useful than it looks for people who struggle with others.

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you want a plain, principle-based guide to getting along and building trust.

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you want psychological depth; it is practical wisdom.

Three things you will actually use

  1. Who you are determines how you see others.
  2. Hurting people hurt people; look past the behavior.
  3. Be an elevator, not an anchor.

Do this first

Apply the elevator principle: notice whether you lift or lower each person you meet today.

Our verdict

Plain and practical.

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