Keeping the Love You Find
by Harville Hendrix
Imago theory for singles: how childhood wounds shape attraction, why you pick partners who resemble your caretakers, and how to grow before the next relationship. Exercises throughout. The single-person companion to Getting the Love You Want.
Read it if…
you are single and keep picking the same wrong person.
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Skip it if…
you are partnered; see Getting the Love You Want.
Try instead: Receiving Love →
Three things you will actually use
- Attraction is old business.
- Heal the wound or repeat it.
- Conscious partnership starts before partnership.
Do this first
Do the imago profile exercise.
Our verdict
Imago, for singles.
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