Love Worth Making
by Stephen Snyder
A sex therapist's focus on arousal as a state of mind rather than a mechanical event: the 'sexual self', the inner child in the bedroom, and why technique books miss the point. Thoughtful and counter to most of the genre.
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you have read technique books and something is still missing.
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you want technique.
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Three things you will actually use
- Arousal is a state of self, not a procedure.
- Your sexual self is young; treat it kindly.
- Attention is the aphrodisiac.
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Read the chapter on the sexual self.
Our verdict
Arousal as a state of self.
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