Not Nice
by Aziz Gazipura
A psychologist and recovered people-pleaser on the cost of niceness: approval-seeking, guilt, inability to say no, and a programme of bold action for saying what you want. Direct and funny.
Read it if…
you are nice and exhausted.
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Skip it if…
you are already assertive.
Try instead: No More Mr. Nice Guy →
Three things you will actually use
- Nice is fear in disguise.
- Discomfort is the price of freedom.
- Say what you want; let others handle it.
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Our verdict
Nice and exhausted.
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