The Disease to Please
by Harriet B. Braiker
People-pleasing as a triangle of mindsets, habits and feelings, with a twenty-one-day programme to cure it. Psychologically grounded and systematic.
Read it if…
you want a structured programme for people-pleasing.
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Skip it if…
you want a quick pep talk.
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Three things you will actually use
- Pleasing is a compulsion, not kindness.
- Change the mindset, habit and feeling together.
- Twenty-one days to a different reflex.
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Take the quiz and start day one.
Our verdict
A twenty-one-day cure.
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