Real Love: The Art of Mindful Connection
by Sharon Salzberg
Love for yourself, for another, for all, as a capacity rather than a commodity, with meditations and stories. Salzberg's gentlest book and a counter to romantic scarcity.
Read it if…
you treat love as something you lack rather than something you do.
See the book →
Skip it if…
you want relationship tactics.
Try instead: I Need Your Love - Is That True? →
Three things you will actually use
- Love is a capacity, not a transaction.
- Start with yourself.
- Extend it outward daily.
Do this first
Read the section on self-love and do the first meditation.
Our verdict
Love as capacity.
See the book →
Compare with other Relationships books

I Need Your Love - Is That True?
Byron Katie with Michael Katz · Relationships
The Work, on love.
CLICK TO SEE
Trust Works!
Ken Blanchard, Cynthia Olmstead and Martha Lawrence · Relationships
ABCD trust.
CLICK TO SEEBrowse all Relationships book reviews or get the free Reality Code Cheat Sheet.
As an Amazon Associate, WisdomDeck earns from qualifying purchases. Links marked “Click to see” go to Amazon. We are not paid for opinions, prices and availability are not shown here and change on Amazon, and we never see your purchase details. Nothing here is medical, legal or financial advice.

