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The Different Drum by M. Scott Peck — WisdomDeck honest review
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The Different Drum

by M. Scott Peck

Community-making: the four stages (pseudocommunity, chaos, emptiness, true community) and what it takes to get a group through them. Peck's most ambitious book and useful for anyone who leads groups.

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Three things you will actually use

  1. Pseudocommunity, chaos, emptiness, community.
  2. Emptiness is the hard door.
  3. True community requires conflict survived.

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Read the chapter on the four stages and identify your group's stage.

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Community, in four stages.

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