How to Love
by Thich Nhat Hanh
A pocket book: the four elements of true love (loving-kindness, compassion, joy, equanimity), understanding as the ground of love, and simple practices for couples and families. Read in an hour; practised for years.
Read it if…
you want a tiny book on love to give or keep.
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Skip it if…
you want relationship research.
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Three things you will actually use
- Understanding is love's other name.
- Are you sure? Ask it often.
- Water the good seeds.
Do this first
Read it tonight.
Our verdict
A pocket book on love.
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