The Relationship Handbook
by George Pransky
The Three Principles approach: relationship problems come from thought and mood, not from the partner; when you understand that, compatibility ceases to be the question. Short, unusual and liberating for some readers.
Read it if…
you want a radically simple view that puts the problem in your own thinking.
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Skip it if…
you want skills and scripts.
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Three things you will actually use
- Low moods produce low thoughts; do not act on them.
- Compatibility is a state of mind.
- Understanding dissolves what effort cannot.
Do this first
Read the chapter on moods and notice yours before the next hard conversation.
Our verdict
The problem is thought.
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