You're Not Listening
by Kate Murphy
A journalist on the decline of listening: the research on attention, the curiosity that good listeners share, and interviews with those who listen for a living. Engaging and reflective.
Read it if…
you want to understand listening as a cultural and personal problem.
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Skip it if…
you want techniques only.
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Three things you will actually use
- Curiosity is the core of listening.
- Assuming you know is the enemy.
- Silence is allowed.
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Ask one follow-up question in every conversation today.
Our verdict
Listening, examined.
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