Disarming the Narcissist
by Wendy T. Behary
A schema therapist on dealing with narcissistic people: understanding the wound, empathic confrontation, leverage, when to leave. More nuanced than most on the subject.
Read it if…
you must deal with a narcissist you cannot simply cut off.
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Skip it if…
you want validation only.
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Three things you will actually use
- Understand without excusing.
- Confront with empathy and leverage.
- Know your exit.
Do this first
Read the chapter on empathic confrontation.
Our verdict
Dealing with narcissists.
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