In Each Other's Care
by Stan Tatkin
Tatkin's guide to the most common couple fights, money, sex, chores, in-laws, with his secure-functioning principles: fairness, justice, sensitivity. Practical scripts throughout.
Read it if…
you want solutions for specific recurring conflicts.
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Skip it if…
you want theory; see Wired for Love.
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Three things you will actually use
- Secure functioning is a pact.
- Fair, just, sensitive.
- Solve for both.
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Read the chapter on your most common fight.
Our verdict
Couples' common fights, solved.
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