Wired for Dating
by Stan Tatkin
Attachment and neuroscience applied to choosing a partner: islands, waves and anchors, reading nervous systems on early dates, and the signs of a secure-functioning relationship. The dating companion to Wired for Love.
Read it if…
you are dating and want to choose by attachment, not chemistry alone.
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Skip it if…
you are partnered; see Wired for Love.
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Three things you will actually use
- Chemistry is not compatibility.
- Islands, waves, anchors.
- Look for secure functioning, not perfection.
Do this first
Identify your style and watch for the other's in the first three dates.
Our verdict
Dating by attachment.
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