Why Accountability Works When Motivation Does Not
Motivation is a mood. Accountability is a calendar entry with a person attached. One of them shows up on the bad weeks.
Motivation is a mood. Accountability is a calendar entry with a person attached. One of them shows up on the bad weeks.
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